Don't Panic

Take a look at some of these vacation ideas and put them in order from most desirable to least desirable. You can click here to do it interactively if you want.

At the very least, if you brush your eyes up and down just to see what's on the list, you'll see a few you like and a few you wouldn't.

And if you actually read it you might even find some you'd love to do, and some you'd never do.

• Winter Wonderland Skiing Adventure in the Swiss Alps
• Summer Beach Relaxation in Tropical Hawaiian Paradise
• Autumn Hiking in the Vibrant New England Foliage
• Cultural City Break in Historic European Capitals
• Wildlife Safari Expedition in the African Savannah
• Food and Wine Tasting Tour in Italy
• Adventure Camping in the Grand Canyon
• Luxury Spa Retreat in the Maldives
• Scenic Road Trip Along the Pacific Coast Highway
• Eco-Friendly Jungle Lodge Stay in Costa Rica
• Family Fun at Disney World in Orlando
• Surfing and Yoga Retreat in Bali
• Cruising the Mediterranean on a Luxury Yacht
• Hiking the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu
• Urban Exploration in Tokyo's Neon Districts
• Romantic Getaway in the French Countryside
• Golfing and Whiskey Tasting in Scotland
• Desert Hot Air Balloon Ride in Arizona
• Cycling Tour Through the French Wine Country
• Northern Lights Expedition in Iceland

I bet there'd be a lot of people who'd order the list differently, no? Because we all have things that just speak to us, right?

And I bet there'd be a few people who told you that you were crazy for liking a particular idea, just as you might judge someone for the things they prefer.

None of that would feel very good, would it? After all, they're just vacation preferences. How ridiculous would it be to judge or hate or restrict someone for their ideal vacation? After all, it's just how they like to feel good, right?

Now replace Vacation Idea with Sexual Orientation/Identification.